FoF: On Tuesday, Vote Like A Parent

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When you’ve got kids, you have to think for the long haul (saving for college, drafting a will, etc.) and for the short term (sweet-lord-a-mercy get me through this day). And since the short term is so much more immediate and constant and all up in our business, we tend to develop a sort of myopia for the long view, which we hope will somehow take care of itself.

It totally won’t.

Since Election Day is Tuesday, we spent a lot of time this week perusing all the content produced by parents throughout the political spectrum. There is much at stake, and while it’s human nature to want immediate results, in reality the real effects of this mid-term election will fall to the future, our children, and their children, and whoever else inhabits this place long after we’re gone.

We were particularly struck by this piece from Patrick Coleman at Fatherly, who says the best way to drown out the partisan bickering that dominates political discourse it to stick to a startlingly simple maxim: “Will my vote help my kid?”

A vote from a parenting perspective is a vote for the longview. It’s about investing in resources (education, housing, food security) that most of our kids rely on to become functioning adults. If a strong domestic agenda is important to you (and we’re seeing a lot of that lately), then casting a vote as a proxy for your kid cleans up a lot of confusion.

Like Coleman, we believe parents can be the steadying influence we all need if we can find strength in each other and marshal whatever resources we have in order to stay calm amid the chaos. We need, in short, “to act like parents.”


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“Experts agree that reading diversely with children is important, particularly books that show positive representations across cultures, genders, and races.”

“I’m trying to model for my kids: how I give myself some spaces throughout the day to have my own feelings. How to be with people. . . How I look for chances to do good.”

“Almost every parent of a teen turns around and thinks, ‘Wait, what happened?'”

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